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TO DISCLOSE OR NOT TO DISCLOSE
that is the question
Dr. Genevieve Marais’ Groundbreaking Book
Therapist self-disclosure has long been a divisive topic in the realm of psychotherapy. While much has been written about its impact on clients, little attention has been paid to the effects it has on therapists themselves. In her illuminating new book, TO DISCLOSE OR NOT TO DISCLOSE, THAT IS THE QUESTION, Counselling Psychologist and Integrative Psychotherapist Dr. Genevieve Marais turns the spotlight toward this overlooked dimension, bringing fresh perspectives to a complex subject.

Risks, Rewards, and Resilience
Dr. Marais dives deep into the complexities of self-disclosure, balancing its potential benefits against its risks. Drawing on contributions from fellow psychotherapists, she unpacks the challenges therapists face when navigating their own vulnerabilities in the therapeutic relationship. Holding in mind a two-person psychology, the book shines a light on the potential for healing and connection that judicious self-disclosure can offer clients and by implication the therapist whilst also acknowledging the emotional toll it can take on the therapist.
Dr. Marais emphasises the importance of maintaining boundaries to safeguard both parties and prevent harm. Her reflections and research provide actionable insights for therapists, offering practical strategies to navigate this intricate terrain.
Redefining the Therapeutic Space
Dr. Marais’ exploration is rooted in her keen interest in the mind-body connection and the dynamic interplay of two subjectivities within the therapeutic space. She focuses on the nuanced interactions that occur in what she describes as “the in-between”—the relational field where the therapist and client meet. This perspective forms the foundation of her inquiry, offering a lens through which therapist self-disclosure is examined not only as a tool for client healing but as a phenomenon with profound implications for the therapist.

Embracing Humanness for Better Practice

Perhaps the most compelling aspect of Dr. Marais’ work is her call to embrace the humanity of the therapist. She challenges the traditional notion that therapists must remain detached, advocating instead for authenticity and self-reflection. Her book is an invaluable resource for psychotherapy trainees and seasoned professionals alike, encouraging open dialogue about the personal impact of self-disclosure.
By shedding light on the often-neglected experiences of the disclosing therapist, Dr. Marais fosters a more holistic approach to psychology and psychotherapy—one that recognises the therapist’s vulnerabilities as a pathway to greater authenticity and improved psychological outcomes.

A Must-Read for Modern Psychologists, Psychotherapists and those working within the field of mental health and caring professions.
Dr. Genevieve Marais’ groundbreaking work is essential reading for anyone engaged in the fields of psychology, psychotherapy, mental health and caring professions. Her thoughtful exploration of self-disclosure provides fresh insights and tools to enhance therapeutic practice while promoting the well-being of therapists. With her focus on the “in-between” and the mind-body connection, this book offers a transformative perspective on what it means to be human and a proactive facilitator in the service of healing for both self and other as a wounded-healer.
For anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of the therapeutic relationship and the complexities of vulnerability, this book is a powerful and inspiring guide.